It is my first mother’s day! It has been so special to celebrate motherhood this year. Not only am I a mom for the first time myself, but my own momma has been with us! This is the first Mother’s Day we have been together in years! She has been here for three weeks helping me with the baby as I transitioned back to work part time. Not only did it make me feel better but I am so glad for the special time Ella had with her grandma “Mimmy”.
I have always been close with my mom but this year I feel a bond even stronger than before. As I learn to be a mother myself, I am overwhelmingly thankful for the example she has set. I mean, everyone loves their mom but I really did get the best! She is the most giving, compassionate, accepting, patient, and friendly person that I know. Everyone that meets her loves her. I when I say everyone, I mean a LOT of people because she talks to EVERYONE. My sister Amy and I often look at each other smiling and shaking our heads as my mom hits it off with another random person she meets at a restaurant, in a store, walking down the street.
I hope that I can replicate the same closeness with Ella as I have with my mom. Both my sister and I call her daily and depend on her for encouragement, advice, comfort, and chit-chat. She listens to every story and every woe. When I asked he about it recently she said that to develop that closeness you have to be able to refrain from judgement. Lord, give me the ability to give Ella the freedom to be REAL with me!
Thank you mom for every sacrifice you made for me, everything you have taught me, and all the time you give to me. And thank you for loving Ella so much! Thank you for every poopy diaper, for every backache you got from rocking, for every sleeve covered in spit up, for every goofy voice you had to use and silly song you had to sing! This has been a special time for Ella and I to have with you. We love you SO MUCH!